Is is appropriate to ask for a hot massage therapist?

I want to try Massage Envy, but I want a young, good-looking guy. I've had massages in the past I didn't enjoy from women and older men.Is is appropriate to ask for a hot massage therapist?
Unless it's a ';special massage'; that you're getting, then it shouldn't matter how hot the masseuse is. I don't think that's appropriate. It would be like going to a restaurant and asking for a better looking server.Is is appropriate to ask for a hot massage therapist?
No, it is not at all appropriate. A good receptionist is trained to weed out clients who ask for a therapist based on looks because it means you're not just there for theraputic purposes. This is getting into sketchy territory as far as the therapists' code of ethics is concerned and any reputable therapist will make a point of staying well on the right side of that line.





If you didn't like a certain therapist's massage style, you can say so and ask for someone different for that reason. The receptionist ought to at least have an idea of who to recommend based on that information. There's nothing wrong with that; we understand that we are all different and not everyone is going to like one particular person's methods. But asking for someone based on appearance is hugely inappropriate. Most reputable places blacklist people who do that.
It sounds like you might have some kind of mental block that's keeping you from relaxing %26amp; enjoying yourself while being massaged by a woman or older man.





Whatever your reasoning may be, you need to identify it. It could be as innocent as ';trust issues';, derived from the occurrence of some past traumatic event in your life or it could be from some mental perversion of equating massage with something 'physically inappropriate'.





You'll have your answer of whether or not it's appropriate to ask for a hot massage therapist, only when you identify WHY you want to ask for a young, good-looking male to do your massages!!!!
lol ok you are paying the money for it and you should get what you want!





It is kinda of inappropriate if you say it like that. Just ask to see the massage staff and then ask how long each of them has been in the business and who has the most compliments/ younger clients.
It's never appropriate and you will be asked to leave. Not only would you be asked to leave but they'll prohibit you from returning to that location or any other Massage Envy location.
Not appropriate, but who cares.
You must remember this, ';The customer is always right';. Now go and enjoy yourself. LOL.